Give instructions in the ways that work best for your subordinate
Rule 2:
Give your directions in more than one way.
Rule 3:
Check for understanding Now let's review the rules in detail.
Give instructions in the ways that work best for your subordinate. Different people process information in different ways. To be most effective, you need to master different ways of presenting instructions so you can choose and use the best way for each subordinate. Psychologists tell us that there are three basic information processing modes. Visual processors think in pictures, while auditory ones think in sound and dialogue. Kinesthetic processors need motion and gesture to understand. Frame your instructions in language that matches your subordinate's preferred mode.
Use the language that your subordinate likes. Note the phrases they use to indicate things they approve of such as "That sounds good" or "It feels right" or "It makes sense." If you use familiar terms when giving instructions, your subordinates are more likely to get the message. Some people prefer you to start with concrete examples and then move to a general principle. Others prefer you to start with the general principle and then provide examples. If you are familiar with the people who work for you, you should learn about what's important to them and how they communicate. Use sports examples for sports lovers and cooking or gardening examples for people who enjoy those pastimes.
Give your directions in more than one way. Here are a few ways that work. Use diagrams and pictures. These can be a great supplement to words alone. Bulleted lists let people review a number of things quickly. If there's a priority or sequence to your instructions, use a numbered list. Use "if-then" charts to help people understand options.


Check for understanding. Stop from time to time and check to determine if your subordinate understands your message. Stop if your subordinate gives signs of not understanding. Stop after each key point to check and see if he or she understands. Have your subordinate demonstrate understanding in more than one way. Words alone are excellent. But demonstrations or "what-if" scenarios are excellent, too. Note key trouble points that others have had with similar instructions. Check your subordinate's understanding of each. This may seem like an elaborate way to complete the simple task of giving instructions, but the more you master the techniques and practice them, the more likely you are to succeed.